tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3409836487024995442.post832554130184367800..comments2023-11-03T04:14:58.972-04:00Comments on Adventures of an Exiled Aristocrat: Lower Expectations?John Halcyon von Rothschildhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01215100065091281534noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3409836487024995442.post-79318376501654192972007-09-03T07:56:00.000-04:002007-09-03T07:56:00.000-04:00You're not out yet? oh same here... well luck migh...You're not out yet? oh same here... well luck might not be on d way for a hubby.... :(Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3409836487024995442.post-28148851884479590952007-08-10T13:51:00.000-04:002007-08-10T13:51:00.000-04:00wow, ang taray ni ateh.anyway, i don't know what t...wow, ang taray ni ateh.<BR/>anyway, i don't know what to say..<BR/>they said it all . =)chase / chubzhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00333030193211160530noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3409836487024995442.post-33245135200030182682007-08-07T01:25:00.000-04:002007-08-07T01:25:00.000-04:00@misterhubs- I should've done it.@closet- those ca...@misterhubs- I should've done it.<BR/><BR/>@closet- those categories are dead on! but I am choosy as well. too picky for my own good.<BR/><BR/>@reyna- I hope that moment comes soon. Perhaps a change in location might just do the trick.<BR/><BR/>@empress- I regret not doing it. I should've just been friendly.John Halcyon von Rothschildhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01215100065091281534noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3409836487024995442.post-81870550871480758432007-08-05T03:22:00.000-04:002007-08-05T03:22:00.000-04:00I might have refused the guy as well, but at the e...I might have refused the guy as well, but at the end of the day I would say to myself "Ang oportunidad, Mare...Ang oportunidad" and turn into Mary Palmer again.Empress Marujahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04535563295243303592noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3409836487024995442.post-59791444945905551742007-08-04T22:04:00.000-04:002007-08-04T22:04:00.000-04:00i certainly can relate, i only came out when i cam...i certainly can relate, i only came out when i came to the US, so it was a shocker to my fraternity, my college friends and... tadang!!! my girlfriendS with an "S".<BR/><BR/>take your time, some magic moment will happen that will out you. be prepared - u will love that moment. or???<BR/><BR/>www.reynaelena.comreyna elenahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04867278298862178995noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3409836487024995442.post-83640476507972565412007-08-03T07:12:00.000-04:002007-08-03T07:12:00.000-04:00hey john. i dont think its about lowering expectat...hey john. i dont think its about lowering expectations or standards. its just simply putting people into categories "mr right" "mr right now" "mr write off". i guess he fell into the 'write off' category. just enjoy the flattering feeling of being cruised... and saying no thank you! no regrets!closet casehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06875118885424455084noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3409836487024995442.post-75675797645149835782007-08-02T22:41:00.000-04:002007-08-02T22:41:00.000-04:00Sometimes, you just have to take a chance, take a ...Sometimes, you just have to take a chance, take a risk, see what happens. Maybe he was just being friendly.Misterhubshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05418170095144817867noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3409836487024995442.post-1146052881849740852007-08-02T13:09:00.000-04:002007-08-02T13:09:00.000-04:00@Q- America's all great...lots of hot guys but whe...@Q- America's all great...lots of hot guys but where I live many many many of them are STRAIGHT. These parts of the woods are H-O-M-O-P-H-O-B-I-C. I mean the city council even disallowed a Pride Parade the year before. Bah! Hopefully I'll be able to move soon. And stories like yours do give yours truly hope of a lasting relationship...John Halcyon von Rothschildhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01215100065091281534noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3409836487024995442.post-91680960626329234682007-08-02T12:59:00.000-04:002007-08-02T12:59:00.000-04:00@reyna- i don't think i'm prepared to be out yet. ...@reyna- i don't think i'm prepared to be out yet. i know it'll happen soon, but hopefully in my own timetable.i can be gay in other cities like manila or when i'm on vacation...but just not my own. i'm just a big ol' scaredy cat.<BR/><BR/>@powerbottom- perhaps you're right. sometimes i get so defensive about being gay and not wanting to be outed at the wrong timeJohn Halcyon von Rothschildhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01215100065091281534noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3409836487024995442.post-4085054485863343482007-08-02T11:17:00.000-04:002007-08-02T11:17:00.000-04:00well... at some point, you'll have to lower your e...well... at some point, you'll have to lower your expectations. I was like that before, expecting too much, and giving too little. But somehow, a one-night stand became something more and I ended up with a boyfriend(I dont really understand it myself).<BR/><BR/>Anyways, you're in America! I'm sure there are lotsa hot guys there who'd be willing to go the distance. :DQtheconquerorhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01121585472733471449noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3409836487024995442.post-78416736089086875452007-08-02T06:04:00.000-04:002007-08-02T06:04:00.000-04:00i think youve just got to be more open to possibil...i think youve just got to be more open to possibilities. maybe he isnt bf material but maybe he fills the shoes of a meantime guy or the emergency f-bud; hell the worst that he could be would be a friendly acquaintance and that still wouldn't hurt now would it? =)MRaunchhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12096417806300447901noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3409836487024995442.post-40411214950657227672007-07-31T23:33:00.000-04:002007-07-31T23:33:00.000-04:00you're not out yet? better do the move. it took me...you're not out yet? better do the move. it took me 88 years to get out of this dark stinking closet and since then, I had the best years of my life. it's total liVEration! so the next time somebody's checking on you? here's the line that I use and it guaranteed you're gonna get the guy: just say - "I love you!" twist your lips in a smack way then wink.<BR/><BR/>Email me what happens next.<BR/><BR/>:-)<BR/><BR/>www.reynaelena.comreyna elenahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04867278298862178995noreply@blogger.com